New Beginnings 2019
Forget – leave all the bad stuff behind, in 2019 you are moving forward.
Forgive – To release yourself from the past, forgive yourself and others.
Be Peaceful – Learn mindfulness and meditation. You will be happy and peaceful when you let go of things that you cannot control.
Accept – accept the past because you cannot change it.
Understand – True solutions come with understanding.
Be Positive – let go of negativity, good and positive thoughts impact your actions.
Change – Change may feel awkward to begin with it always is. You will need to push yourself to make it happen.
Focus – focus on the positive, set yourself goals, make your new life a priority.
Be Aware – Trusts your instincts, be open to new opportunities.
Take Risks – go outside of your comfort zone, open up to a whole new world.
Expect the Best – aim high, do not compromise yourself, go for it.
Never look back, starting over is a process of change, change is progress, which will lead you to success.
A new year new beginning
Come and join us on our journey of Emotional Healing
1) Emotional component: how we feel about an object, person, group, event or some piece of work. Whether we feel happy, good, energetic, encouraged, comfortable, and relaxed or we feel disgusted, lethargic, discouraged, fearful, and enraged; in fact there are hundreds of other emotions that play role in formation of our attitudes.
2) Cognitive component: cognitions mean our way of dealing with information that includes perception, thinking, and memory. Attitudes are also based on how we perceive certain information and how much we consider it to be meaningful. We usually think about an object, person, group, event or some piece of work as easy or difficult, challenging or simple, threatening or supporting, beneficial or harmful to others, and these thinking patterns play a key role in the formation of attitudes about the target objects.
3) Behavioral component: the combination of thinking and feeling in a certain way about some objects leads us to act toward that object in a certain way. If we consider a task enjoyable (emotional component) and think that it is a useful activity (cognitive component), e.g. solving math problem or playing a game of chess, it is more probable that we will do that task in a positive way (behavioral component). If we consider math or chess to be boring (emotional component) and relatively less useful activities (cognitive component), then we will most likely avoid them (behavioral component). Continue reading “Attitudes”
Research has shown time and time again that our minds and bodies are linked: stress and depression can breed fatigue, while a positive outlook on life can provide us with an increased amount of energy. Willpower and determination can make us run faster and longer.
A new study expounds upon the link between mind and body; it shows that holding a grudge may not weigh only on your mind but also upon your physical person. Published in Social Psychological & Personality Science, the research states that the act of forgiveness — pardoning someone who has done you wrong — can not only metaphorically lift a burden off your shoulders, but it can do so physically, as well.
Self love is completely healthy because it provides a healthy level of self esteem. Self esteem is what we believe about ourselves, for example, if we believe we are deserving of love, we will feel loved. Self esteem also helps us believe in our own value and worth as deserving human beings. We all deserve and need love. Healthy levels of self love and self esteem create a loving, caring world in which others are drawn towards us. This is where we connect with like minded individuals so self love heals, nurtures, protects and validates.
Hopefully by now you can see the difference between the unhealthy traits of narcissism which is about obsession, control and a lack of love versus the healthy traits of self love which is essential to us all if we are going to feel welcome in our own world and welcome those who want to share our world with us. https://parentalalienation-pas.com/2015/04/08/a-word-about-self-love/
The answer is forgiveness. But this is where many stumble. They know that they need to forgive but feel stuck in bitterness. It seems so much easier for others to tell them to choose forgiveness than for them to forgive. https://parentalalienation-pas.com/2015/07/02/a-closer-look-at-forgiveness/