Being a victim does have some nice perks though. First of all, it allows us not to have to take on responsibility, which can feel like a burden and can get very, very heavy when we are adding blame on top of that responsibility. Interestingly, the universe does not recognize blame. Blame is something that originates from the human psyche.
Yet another perk of being a victim is that you don’t have to take responsibility for your future. It’s hard to realize that no one is going to save you from your situation. One of the most painful realizations you can have is the realization that no one can rescue you from yourself. https://parentalalienation-pas.com/2015/06/15/5-tips-to-finally-stop-being-the-victim/